Finally... a fertility program tailored to the LGBTQ+ community...

Optimize your chances of getting pregnant with my 4-step fertility formula, gain confidence and clarity on your journey, invest in yourself and your family, and start enjoying life again.

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Can you relate?

Let me know if any of these sound familiar...


You're losing precious sleep because you need to do countless hours of research so you know how to start this process.


You're confused on which method is best for you and now you have a massive headache and you just wish someone could tell you what to do.


You started out super hopeful and optimistic, but this process is way more involved than you thought and now you're totally overwhelmed and wondering if this is actually going to work for you.


You've started sharing what you're going through with friends, only to find that trying to conceive as an LGBTQ+ couple is completely different than what most people experience.


You didn't get pregnant on the first try, or the second, or the third and you're thinking to yourself, "What is wrong with me?!  Is my body broken?  I must be doing something wrong!"

Imagine feeling...

Like you can get a good night's rest because you have the shortcut on how to conceive.

Empowered because you know the next steps to take on your journey.

Held and supported by your very own personal fertility coach who 100% understands what you're going through.

Peaceful and calm because you're using mind-body tools that are scientifically proven to increase your fertility.

Fertility Freedom Program with Vanessa Gillis-Phelps

Introducing the Fertility Freedom Program

A LIVE 8 week Fertility Immersion Program to help LGBTQ+ Couples increase their chances of getting pregnant and transform their lives (and relationships) in the process.

Module 1: Your Subconcious Setbacks

Are you counting yourself out before you've even counted yourself in? Is your mind racing constantly with the fears and worries about what could go wrong? We'll get you back on track so your path feels clear as you move forward to conceive your baby.

Module 2: All About The        F-Word

Did you know that practicing forgiveness can actually help you get pregnant?  Yep, it's true. When you forgive yourself and others, you release negative emotions and resistance.  Not only does this reduce stress, but it allows blocked energy to flow freely so you can start attracting what you really want in life.

Module 3: Connecting With Your Spirit Baby

Want to know your baby's favorite color or what their personality is like? What if you could receive signs that your little one is close by?  You'll love learning simple ways to connect with your baby prior to conception, and best of all, anyone can do it.  No super powers needed.

Module 4: Your Two Week Wait, Survive & Thrive

Ready to step off the emotional rollercoaster?  If you've had one or more unsuccessful treatment cycles, you know it's mentally exhausting to live your life in two week increments.  You feel hopeful one minute and defeated the next. You need tools to break that cycle ASAP.

Module 5: Step Into Your Power

Do you believe that you can actually get pregnant? Sometimes we think it's possible, but when it comes down to it, we are second-guessing our body's ability to conceive every step of the way. Discover ways to release the control and trust that the Universe has your back.

Module 6: Manifesting Money Secrets

Whether you're doing home-insemination or IVF, fertility expenses add up quickly.  I totally get it, which is why we'll show you my proven step-by-step system to attract money to you when you need some extra cash.

Module 7: Life After Birth, Postpartum Prevention

In module 7 we'll 'fast forward' to the future where you'll learn simple strategies to help prevent postpartum depression. There is so much focus on trying to conceive, that once your little one is here, folks are often caught off guard by the intense emotions of this time.  A little planning can go a long way.

Module 8: Awaken To Mindful Parenting

You have big plans to change the world through your parenting.  You want to do things differently than how you were raised. Learn ways to be a present parent, to encourage your child to be their full authentic self and to show the world that as an LGBTQ+ family, yours is no different.  

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I love my personalized virtualization!! I also did a one-on-one with Vanessa and she really helped me change my mindset about the BFN, and I truly believe that it will happen for me. Thanks again!


I really don’t know what I would do without you, Vanessa! I definitely knew our first conversation wasn’t going to be our last! I’m so glad I said yes to investing in me!!


I've learned so much and I'm so thankful that I have you to share this journey with.  You've opened up my mind, body and soul to a new wonderful way of thinking when it comes to TTC.  I couldn't do this without you!

About me

Hi, I’m Vanessa!  I’m a lesbian wife and mama to two amazing donor-conceived kids who loves few things more than good hugs, late-night Target runs, and showing people like you that getting pregnant is absolutely possible.

As a fertility coach for the LGBTQ+ community, it is my goal to help individuals and couples navigate the ups and down of the fertility journey. Whether you are just starting out or you’ve been trying to conceive for a while, I want you to know that all hope is not lost.  There’s still time.  There’s still a way.  It can still happen.

How do I know this?

Because I struggled too.  When my wife and I were just starting the process, we were so overwhelmed by the information overload!  We wanted every decision we made to be the right decision because we didn’t want to waste our time and money.  We weren’t like most traditional couples...we didn’t have the endless sperm fountain, unlimited tries each month, or insurance that recognized that my family had to be created differently than most couples.  Who wants to go into debt before your baby is even born?!  It was so stressful, but we did it, and with my guidance and loving support, I know you can too.


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Do you only work with people in the US?

No! My clients are global, and while there are some small variations across countries, the most important lessons, guidance and shortcuts can be applied, no matter where you live in the world, and all of our content and calls are conducted virtually.

What is fertility coaching?

The definition of can be quite varied, however a coach is someone who helps you find the best answers for yourself (unlike a therapist for example, who helps you walk through past events in your mind - a coach helps you get to the root cause of your fears, worries, self-sabotage and reframe it for the future). 

I am a mix between a coach and a mentor - someone who helps you discover the path that works best for YOU, but also helps guide you through strategies and the LGBTQ+ fertility world, based on my own experience and journey to help you thrive.

I'm still at the research phase. Would this still be suitable for me?

It's never too early or too late to join me in the Fertility Freedom program.

Joining us at the start of your journey could help fast track your journey to conceive and make the process calmer, more fun and give you the shortcuts (that I wish I had!). 

Likewise it's never too late to join the program. When things feel like they're not working. sometimes you need guidance, support and a second pair of eyes to shift things around.

Is this just for the person who is carrying the baby?

For LGBTQ+ folk, having the right advice, guidance and support for both people can be invaluable - and that's why it's important to work with someone who has an intimate understanding of how relationships and fertility treatments/journeys look for same sex and LGBTQ+ couples.

Do both of us need to do the program together?

I've worked with couples who are both very much invested in this program together (it's like their weekly date night!), but I've also worked very successfully with a number of couples for whom one partner joins the program while the other takes more of a back seat - but still benefits from the shortcuts, guidance and personal development of the partner who has worked with me.

What if we are doing IVF?

Regardless of the way in which you've chosen to bring your baby into the world, this program will still be invaluable. I've worked with couples who have conceived in almost every way imaginable, so whether for you, that's through IVF, IUI or cervical insemination - the Fertility Freedom Program will still be incredibly helpful.

I have SO many fertility expenses and bills. Will this be worth it?

Growing your family is an incredible investment. But it can also be lengthy and draining, particularly so without the right guidance and support.

My belief is that it is always a worthy investment when the investment is in yourself. If you are still feeling unsure, feel free to visit our Success Stories page to learn more from the many families who we've worked with in the past.

Where do the sessions take place?

All sessions are conducted virtually through Zoom so you can join from anywhere in the world!

Does this include 1:1 coaching?

This is a group program, and the format works really well for people, because it offers you the support of a collective group of people who you can lean on, however some people work best 1:1 and I completely respect that!

My recommendation is to book a call with me and we can chat through this on the call - we do have 1:1 coaching available and can discuss this with you on the free strategy call.

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